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Updated: 6/07/2011 6:36 pm

One day after Representative Anthony Weiner's shocking confession...

"I've exchanged messages and photos of explicit nature with about six women," Rep. Anthony Weiner, D-New York, said.

Many Americans are thinking, not another one. Weiner is just one of several politicians in recent weeks under fire for inappropriate relationships, which begs the question, why do powerful men cheat? 

"People begin to treat you like you're special and you begin to believe that you really are," Dean Haddock, psychologist, said. "That kind of power can be intoxicating and on an impulse I think they begin to act out on some of those."

Perhaps it was impulse that led Weiner to Twitter a half-naked photo of himself to a Seattle woman last week.

"Once I realized I had posted it to Twitter I panicked," Weiner said. "I took it down and said I've been hacked I then continued with that story, which was a hugely regrettable mistake."

Weiner admitted he used social media to exchange messages with women while married. Bakersfield marriage counselor Joshua Haddock said he sees it more often in his practice.

"Our younger clients have been well desensitized to those types of things that modern technology is just technology and it doesn't really matter," Haddock said.

But does it matter? Weiner said he never had any physical contact with these women. But is sending a lewd photo still cheating?

"It's cheating in every way as far as I'm concerned, he should resign," said one Bakersfield resident.  

"If I did that with my girlfriend she would break up with me in a heartbeat," said another.

But others said they don't care about Weiner's behavior, they just want him to work on issues that matter.

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jmabbott888 - 6/13/2011 3:14 PM
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Proud, my point was it isn't just well known and/or rich men that cheat, it's also the poor/middleclass men & WOMEN as well as the rich ones that do.

proudpatriot - 6/12/2011 11:14 AM
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common sense let me correct your sentence "almost every BOY on earth cheat". Many well known people do cheat jmabbott and the psychologist is right. He may be stating the obvious but he is right. Getting down to the point, the man isn't powerful he is weak. So weak, like many other boys, that he couldn't even controll himself. That.... is kind of sad.

Two Gee - 6/8/2011 8:18 AM
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This is Two Gee again ~ I spelled actual wrong. It should have been "actuality"

Two Gee - 6/8/2011 8:13 AM
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Hey You, Don't knock our California Reporters. But truthfully that was funny. Men cheat because they want to, from bums on skid row to President Clinton while he was in the White House. And in all acutally there isn't any difference between men or women.

RVLADY - 6/8/2011 7:34 AM
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What about women. I know 1 that has had 4 kid's by 3 different men+ alot of affairs with others. she's also collects welfare for years.

common sence - 6/7/2011 9:39 PM
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Powerful men , what are you talking about almost every man on earth cheat except 5 percent i mean 4 or maybe 3 percent but it doesn't matter. broke men cheat as well, look local news just ask the district attorney who is in charge of child support to give you a statistics on how many men have different children by many different women on file through out kern county and then you will have your answer

jmabbott888 - 6/7/2011 8:54 PM
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"People begin to treat you like you're special and you begin to believe that you really are," Dean Haddock, psychologist, said. "That kind of power can be intoxicating and on an impulse I think they begin to act out on some of those So Mr Haddock why do poor men & women cheat? Also why do some of the well known people not cheat?

HammerTime - 6/7/2011 8:13 PM
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If the reports are true that he never had physical relations with the women he was sex-ting with, he is dumber than a Californian reporter.

jrc2995 - 6/7/2011 6:37 PM
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stupid, stupid, stupid sicko. Hope his wife kicks him to the curb, which is what he deserves.
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