Red Flag Warning expires at 11:00 PM on 5/25, issued at 3:15 PM Ridgecrest, CA

Tehachapi boy is one of four teen suicides in recent weeks

Set Text Size SmallSet Text Size MediumSet Text Size LargeSet Text Size X-Large
Share
Updated: 10/05/2010 4:20 pm
Families across the nation are mourning the deaths of four teens who were bullied and harassed based on their actual or perceived sexual orientation.

First there was Asher Brown, just 13, from Texas. He shot himself. His parents said it was a response to anti-gay bullying at his school.

Then 15-year-old Billy Lucas of Indiana hanged himself after classmates said he was picked on for the way he talked and dressed.

Next, Tyler Clementi, a Rutgers University student who jumped off a bridge after prosecutors said his roommate streamed video of him having sexual encounters with a man. Two Rutgers freshmen have been charged with invasion of privacy and more severe hate crime charges could follow.

"Privacy violations are just the tip of the iceberg," cyber crime expert, Parry Aftab, said. "We're looking into civil rights violations, wire tap federal and state, probably harassment and many other crimes."

And then there is Seth Walsh, a local teen who hanged himself following years of bullying at school.

"I would like to see more tolerance in the community for people who are different," Judy Walsh, Seth Walsh's grandmother, said.

Experts said anti-gay bullying is an epidemic in this country with three in five gay students reporting they feel unsafe at school.

"Parents should be looking for any changes in their kids that are somewhat remarkable," Michelle Huneckey, Kern Network for Children, said.

A gay and lesbian advocated group called the Trevor Project has launched a YouTube campaign to try and prevent suicides of youth experiencing the same type of bullying. The group wants to let youth know they are not alone.
Share
8 Comment(s)
Comments: Show | Hide

Here are the most recent story comments.View All

The views expressed here do not necessarily represent those of KGET TV 17 - In the Spirit of the Golden Empire

shanestahl - 10/19/2010 12:22 PM
0 Votes
For it to get better, we must do better. We must be more compassionate and loving! View my #ItGetsBetter video at: http://youtu.be/wyXdQzK8Y5A

kbland11 - 10/6/2010 9:46 AM
0 Votes
You are absolutely right the parents are not the problem but lack of communication could help this issue too. we are too quick to shift the blame else where. We never look at home first.

Irish - 10/5/2010 8:09 AM
1 Vote
If he had been bullied and killed himself because he was fat or stuttered then this would not be news. But because he was bullied for being gay suddenly it's news? If he was murdered for being gay then yes, it's a hate crime and it's news. But he killed himself. It's sad and it sucks but it's not news.

jmabbott888 - 10/4/2010 10:48 PM
0 Votes
Anyone ever thought that to be "cool" you bully a kid cause he is different & your buddies follow along since they want to be "cool" too? Who knows, the parts of the "leader" may be pro gay so to speak. Look at it a little different way, what if Seth killed himself for being fat & wearing glasses (the pics of him show he wasn't fat or wears glasses) how many parents if any teach their kids that being fat & wearing glasses is bad? Sometimes it's kids just trying to belong to the popular kids or just plain being mean spirited & has nothing to do with the parents. No I am not saying that being a bully is right but the parents may not be the problem.

kbland11 - 10/4/2010 4:31 PM
0 Votes
So when are we going to stop holding everyone else accountable for these cowards killing themself. What selfishness. They should have not been bullied and those children should be delt with but we have to hold the parents and these children accountable for there coward acts.

blondbomb2007 - 10/4/2010 10:39 AM
0 Votes
@I'm not saying yes, hanged in the correct term use.

im not saying - 10/3/2010 2:14 PM
0 Votes
I'm sorry for the families loss. Unfortunately, I'm not commenting on that. I need to ask if if "hanged" was the correct term to use in this article vs hung?

DHibbert - 10/3/2010 10:52 AM
1 Vote
Whats sad is in the Tehachapi school district where my son has been a student for the last 7 years is that they have a boys will be boys mentality. I pulled my son and began homeschooling him this year rather than let him attend junior high because the bullying he recieved in elementary school was so prevalent and no one would do anything about it. After one instance where he was continually being pushed in line we told him to finally hit back because the school officials wouldnt take it seriously so he did.. The boys were taunting him and pushing him and he turned around and hit the boy who did it causing a fight to break out where two boys jumped him. He was suspended along with only one of the other boys for fighting and they wouldnt even consider the fact he was only defending himself. We have had numerous encounters with the principles and superintendants office over the issue of bullying and even though they say the have a no tolerance policy they allow it. In the classroom, on the playground and on the buses. If it doesn't stop, if the federal officials don't step in now and do something we will likely see more youngsters like Seth, who my son knew. This tragedy could have been prevented. Why wasnt it? The school district needs to stop saying they have an anti bullying policy in place, take their heads out of the sand and actually get one in place. D. Hibbert
Bakersfield Current Conditions
50° High: 75°  |  Low: 50°
Clear
Inergize Digital This site is hosted and managed by Inergize Digital.
Mobile advertising for this site is available on Local Ad Buy.