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When can you leave your kids home alone?

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Updated: 6/02/2010 9:00 pm
School is almost out, which means a lot of parents are probably trying to figure out what their kids are going to do over the summer. For parents who work, the question becomes even more important.

Leaving them home alone is the cheapest option, but when is that ok? And that's a tough question to answer, especially because in California there's no law telling you when it's legally OK to leave your kids home alone.

Besides all the trouble they can get into, leaving your kids at home by themselves can be downright dangerous. "A lack of supervision is often the reason for tragic accidents with children," said Lisa Duncan-Purcell with Community Connection for Child Care.

But parents want to be able to leave their children alone once they reach a certain age. "You have to go make money and baby-sitters are expensive. And maybe you think, I'm just going to the store and it's only going to take five minutes," said Tony Johnson who has three children.

One of the most common questions they get at Community Connection for Child Care is, "when can I leave my kids home alone?"

"There's no actual state law in California that dictates when a child can be left alone," said Carina Ortiz with the Bakersfield Police Department.

There are guidelines however on how to tell if your kids are ready and how to prepare them. "I think the key is starting small. Maybe you run out to the store to pick up a carton of milk. Maybe your child's home alone for 15 or 20 minutes," said Duncan Purcell.

"We don't recommend that they answer the door to anybody. We don't recommend you answer the phone unless you absolutely have to," said Ortiz.

Experts say it's different with every child. "She was about eight or nine, but she showed that she could handle it and do what she needed to do," said Johnson of his oldest daughter.

Other parents say 12, 14, even 16 is still too young. In the end, experts say it comes down to maturity and the comfort level of both parent and child.

Kern County Network for Children is hosting a free class June 3rd on how to prepare your child to be home alone and how to judge if they're ready for that responsibility. it's being held from 8:30 to 11:30 in the morning at 2000 "K" Street.

While there are no laws about at what age to leave kids alone, there are laws regarding child endangerment and neglect, and for instance, experts say it's never ok to leave a toddler alone.
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TrishaSmith - 1/26/2011 10:27 AM
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We started leaving our son when he reached 12. We are confident to leave him at home because we know that he is responsible enough to handle unexpected situations or emergency. Besides we registered him to SafeKidZone to ensure his safety. It’s a panic button alert installed on his cell phone that would help him in times of emergency. In just a press of it, he would be able to put his trusted friends and family members in a conference call and will notify them that he is in danger. It is really very helpful for him because he will also be notified if he is near at danger zones. If you want to check it out, this is their site http://safekidzone.com/

storitman - 6/4/2010 8:15 AM
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My parents BOTH worked - I remember in 1970, at the age of 10, watching my 2 sisters, 8 and 3 then, ALL summer long...and you know what? We survived. Parents need to sack up and take some PARENTING classes, and TEACH their kids RIGHT FROM WRONG...and stop blaming OTHER people for their problems. Us kids KNEW our boundaries, and we did not have the INTERNET, or 600 channels on TV...we did CHORES...we CLEANED up the house, and IF there was a problem, the OLDEST one called MOM/DAD to have them take care of it. Spare me with this welfare state and EBT and Head Start daycare...ANYONE ELSE here wonder why the economy is the way it is? Start here...LAZY kids = LAZY workers later...FREE daycare = FREE medical/dental medical and EBT dependency later...I got a GREAT idea...close the office at California and Union and SEE HOW MANY people actually HAVE TO GET A JOB in this town...

DarthDuh - 6/3/2010 9:36 PM
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momof3-so what do these parents do that are trying to work menial jobs to stay off welfare and can neither afford private chid care nor qualify for subsidized child care? Quit and go back on welfare? AS long as affordable child care is limitted to chronic welfare clients or two income families, there will be kids staying home alone. If you raise your kid right and instill safety skills in them at an early age, why couldn't they stay home alone? Get real people. Lack of choices do not make us neglectful parents!

momof3 - 6/3/2010 8:39 PM
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I agree with jhodge and I was a single working parent. It is no wonder why so many kids are into bad things these days. I see on a daily basis the low of society and would never forgive myself if some piece of trash was able to get to my kids! No way!!

DarthDuh - 6/3/2010 1:05 PM
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jhodge-obviously your not a working single parent.

jhodge - 6/3/2010 6:37 AM
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leaving children home alone is asking for trouble. Why would a caring responsible parent ever want to leave their precious child home alone, it doesn't make sense. You may think a child at age 12 is mature enough but think again, he/she is still a child and needs to be looked out for. No way would I ever leave my child home alone, not even for 5 min.
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